Relationships GUIDE 😂

 

Today I am writing about an exciting and juicy topic, relationships. It is like the one who has hardly ever driven a car will give an expert opinion on how to win races. Personally, I am really bad at managing relations. However, I have observed that whenever you have frequent interaction or proximity with someone, there is this one moment of utmost tension or repulsion. If you sustain or are able to handle that point well, then you can co-exist close to the person for much longer. Having said that, nothing beats blood relationships. The bond that one has with one’s own blood will hardly ever be found with anyone else. It is like the DNA copies created are naturally tuned similar to their original parent. Over a period of time, one realizes that only blood relations aren’t sufficient. We need a shoulder to cry on, someone to share our thoughts which not everyone can hear, someone with whom we can reveal our vulnerable self. Time has become really fast in today’s world. Nobody has the time to sit around and look for this somebody. It is essential that we pace our life wisely and choose to give importance to relations at the right stage. 

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Indian culture has always put forth the concept of ‘one life, one partner’. I find this really interesting and nice. One of the most important qualities that this has imbibed in people is to adjust, be compatible, and be ready for some change. Only when the change is something totally against your way of life does the relationship fall apart. I feel this way of life has more advantages than not, the most important being that you choose that ‘somebody’ for life, someone who will know your past deeply, understand your present and accompany you to the future. Over time these relationships just keep getting stronger. It is as if one part of your life stabilizes and you don’t need to worry about not having a close ‘someone’. It also brings along a huge sense of acceptance of people who are different from you. You don’t have the same personality, food habits, routine, physique as your partner and its alright, variety is the spice of life. Relationships have the ability to make or break a person and one must respect and nurture these beautiful things in our life.